The Evolutionary Psychology of Mating and Dating

Course Lectures

• Sex Wars

  Glenn Wilson

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  This module addresses the complex dynamics between male and female instincts, exploring how "selfish genes" can lead to conflict in relationships. Key themes include:

  • The adaptive values of monogamy, polygamy, and infidelity.
  • The reality of sex addiction as a potential disease versus a moral excuse.
  • The distinction between explaining behaviors and justifying them morally.
  • Understanding and reconciling the differences in instincts between genders.

  Through this module, participants will gain valuable insights into the psychological foundations of sexual behavior.

• What is This Thing Called "Love"?

  Glenn Wilson

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  This module investigates the biochemical and neurological aspects of love, focusing on how our bodies influence romantic experiences. Participants will explore:

  • The roles of hormones, pheromones, and bonding chemicals in love.
  • The extent to which we are influenced by our brain chemistry.
  • The evolutionary origins of romantic love and its adaptive significance.
  • How sexual arousal connects with feelings of love and attachment.

  By understanding the science behind love, participants can better appreciate the emotional experiences they encounter.

• Lovesickness

  Glenn Wilson

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  This module explores the phenomenon of lovesickness, questioning whether love can become an obsession. Key discussion points include:

  • The distinction between healthy and unhealthy expressions of love.
  • Methods for recovering from the loss of a partner.
  • Dealing with pain from separation and divorce.
  • Pathological forms of love, including erotomania, extreme jealousy, and stalking.

  Participants will also learn about healthy conflict resolution strategies, equipping them with tools to navigate complex emotional landscapes.